The Fifth Month and Hexagram 44

As things tend to do this time of year, my regular post for this month is a bit late. The fifth month started on June 5th with the seasonal qi of “grain in the ear" which is a reference to the corn harvest and also contains the qi of the "summer solstice" which occured on June 21st. The month will end on July 6th. In a way, my tardiness is good because this month is all about relationships and warmth of people (as opposed to the cold clickity-clack of computers). I don't know about you, but it has been really difficult to concentrate on school work in the midst of finals - all I want to do is hang out with friends and eat food and enjoy the sights and smells of a Portland that seems otherworldly from the dark winter of last.

Hexagram 44, 姤, is translated as Coupling, Meet, Rendezvous, Intercourse, or the Royal Bride. It is wind beneath heaven and aligning with the organ of the Heart, this hexagram is really about connection and contact: it's the spaces (distance and proximity) between all of us as individuals where the magic happens and where we can discover who we really are as an individual.

Here's the hexagram text:

《姤》女壯，勿用取女。

A strong or royal woman, do not marry such a woman.



《彖》曰：《姤》、遇也，柔遇剛也。「勿用取女」、不可與長也。天地相遇，品物咸章也。剛遇中正，天下大行也。《姤》之時義大矣哉！


The image says: Encounter, a meeting, be soft yet firm in the meeting. Do not marry such a woman, for it will not last. Heaven and earth are both meeting, they produce the rules of all things. Firm and equitable meetings, produces great movement under heaven. Encounter is a time of great honor!!!



《象》曰：天下有風，《姤》。后以施命誥四方。
The image says: Below Heaven there is Wind, Encounter. The queen uses this to carry out her imperial mandate int the four directions.

The idea of wind below heaven indicates to me an exchange on a purely energetic level that is not to be cemented into the material. The sage uses this energy to draw into himself while simultaneously connecting to the will of heaven. This is a good time to see that our desires are not to be placed into the material realm, but to appreciate the ever-changing nature of the flow of energy, which at this time is pivoting.

Wilhelm writes:

This hexagram indicates a situation in which the principle of darkness, after having been eliminated, furtively and unexpectedly obtrudes again from within and below. Of its own accord the female principle comes to meet the male. It is an unfavorable and dangerous situation, and we must understand and promptly prevent the possible consequences.